Friday, March 25, 2011

Something Borrowed - Relationship Questions.

All relationships begin somewhere... Usually they begin with a friendship and progress from there.  Something Borrowed is a great upcoming movie for realtionships. In the movie Something Borrowed, Rachel and Darcy’s lifelong friendship collides with true love, when perpetual good girl Rachel unexpectedly ends up in bed with the guy she’s had a crush on since law school, Dex…who just happens to be Darcy’s fianc√©! This leads to unexpected complications and potentially explosive romantic revelations in all of their relationships...

I have been married for 5 years now... and when you think you have things figured out... life throws you a curveball.  It never seems to fail...  I have learned that relationships are not a one sided thing.  They are suppose to be two sided..  Communication is key... But what happens when that 2 person relationship starts to turn into a one sided effort.  What happens when there is no communcation?  Or broken communication. 
How do you fix it when it has seemed to have gotten to the point of no repair? 

I have come across many different obsticles - and it seems that they all revolve around communication skills.  When my husband and I were going through marriage consuling, the one thing that was always stressed was keeping an open line of communication... And not to go to bed angry... It sounds so easy in theory, but when it comes to practice.... It wasnt as easy.

If you could give your best piece of advice to a couple what would it be?  Whether it is for a guy and girl going on their first date... or a newly engaged couple... Or even someone who has just gotten married and are starting out their new life as husband and wife. And knowing that we all have questions about relationships...  What question would you like to have answered? 

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